I have a confession to make.
My beliefs around life pretty next level and trigger the fuck out of most people, and because of that, I sometimes hesitate to share them.
Yet, at the same time, I am fully aware that BECAUSE these beliefs are so WILD and on the EDGE of popular concepts of “What It Means To Be Human” and “How Life Is”, that I trust in the Universe enough to know, that they wouldn’t be in my heart and soul, JUST FOR ME. That more so, they are here for me to express and share, and to help and be of service.
That’s the thing about gifts, ideas, desires, inspirations, creative impulses, etc.
They aren’t just downloaded TO you, just FOR you.
They are meant to be utilized. To be shared. To use for impact.
(Consider that the next time you’re afraid to speak your truth or go after your dreams and desires)…
Ok, so anyways, back to the point.
I’m doing a pretty good job of dodging and avoiding the ACTUAL THING that I want to share with you.
And before I say it, I will say this: I am not only speaking to YOU, but ALSO myself, because obviously what triggers us from the outside is simply a reflection of our own internal shit that we get to look at and take responsibility for. So in the following rant, I am not only ranting on YOU (maybe? Depends….;))…but mostly…MYSELF.
Because we can sit here all day online and rant and message and inspire and teach and lead, but REALLY, at the end of the day, all anyone has power over, control over?…RESPONSIBILITY OF…is their OWN life, their OWN thoughts, their OWN perceptions, reactions, actions and beliefs.
Which kind of brings me to the entire point of my blog today.
And it’s the…
HEY!! HEY YOU!!! YOU ARE NOT A VICTIM!!!!
YOU ACTUALLY GET TO CHOOSE EXACTLY WHAT YOUR LIFE LOOKS LIKE.
You are not at the mercy of the moon, your boyfriend, your bank account, the economy, Sally Sue who was a total bitch to you at work the other day, the holidays, traffic, and whatever else you would like to use as an excuse for why you are not moving forward on your dreams.
You are not moving forward because you are CHOOSING not to.
Plain and simple.
Now, this may be an unconscious choice for sure (and probably is!), but look at that, we just brought it to light! And now you get to choose to look at it.
I get so triggered when my clients/followers/friends act (and pretend like) they don’t have choice.
And of course, I ALWAYS get to tune in and take a look at why I’m so triggered by that, and where I am not practicing choice in my life.
We act like we are at the mercy of the Universe, and we forget that we ARE the Universe.
You are more powerful than you will ever even probably BEGIN to understand.
How many of you are holding off on launching something because it’s holiday season?!?!
Do you understand that you have a limiting belief that “people don’t invest in themselves during the holiday season because they are buying gifts for people”, and that’s it’s not actually the TRUTH?!
Also, not to mention, that belief is coming from scarcity and lack, if you look at it.
Do you know how many people have a belief that the holiday season is the easiest time to sell their online products/programs online, and therefore that is the result that they create?
Neither one is TRUE, but whatever you EXPECT, you will SEE evidence of.
So why do you continue to buy into beliefs that don’t serve you?
And if you’re still shaking your head, and saying, but no, Kelly, it’s TRUE!!!
Then I would invite you to have a heart to heart with yourself. How is it benefitting your life, your legacy, to continue to dig your heels in about stuff that straight up just doesn’t serve you?
What do you gain by doing so?
So…to recap…none of the following are valid excuses for not following your dreams:
-My list isn’t big enough.
-It’s Mercury Retrograde.
-Everyone else is already doing what I’m doing.
-It’s the holiday season.
-It’s tax time.
-I only have x amount of hours per week to work on my business.
-I don’t have the money.
-There’s too much to do so I might as well not do anything.
-People would talk shit.
-No one in my family has ever done it.
-The universe is asking me to slow down.
-My horoscope said not to.
The only valid excuse for NOT following your dreams?
-I DON’T WANT TO BECAUSE IT DOESN’T ULTIMATELY BRING ME JOY.
That’s the only valid excuse.
And if that’s the excuse, then it’s time to get yourself into some meditation hut in some jungle somewhere and start doing some soul searching about your life’s path and what it is that REALLY desire to create in this lifetime (can also be done at home in a bubble bath, BTW) ;)
All the bullshit excuses I listed above…do you want to know WHY they are bullshit?
Because they are literally handing your creative power over to anything and everything outside of yourself, when your REAL and TRUE job in life is to harness your own creative power and let that be all you need.
Because it IS all you need.
If you are on a mission, come hell or high water, to fulfill on your dream, NOTHING can stop you.
It’s the energy that creates worlds.
Literally, NOTHING can stop you.
And if it does, you simply figure out how to keep going anyways, and then you KEEP GOING.
I’m so tired of hearing you (and ME!) spoon-feeding ourselves a bunch of sugary bullshit about not pushing too hard, and doing it only when it feels like it’s the right time, or when the economy is better, or when I have more “proof” that it’s going to work.
YOUR SHIT WILL WORK AND YOU’LL GET RESULTS WHEN YOU STOP WAITING FOR PROOF.
Deem yourself worthy, make the decision, and then act with full faith, until it happens, and then continuing on past that too.
THIS is how people create complete transformation in their lives.
You know those people that you haven’t seen in five years and you see them and you’re like what the HELL happened? They got skinny, rich, and happy practically OVERNIGHT.
It’s because they chose to no longer be dictated by outside circumstances and decided to just CHOOSE and OWN THEIR POWER.
And that’s how it’s done.
This is exactly the kind of thing we work on when you work with me 1:1. We approach business growth (and personal growth), and creating results from a place of taking RADICAL responsibility for who you are, what you believe, and what you’re creating.
Want to learn more about what working with me privately looks like? PM me and let’s chat.
YOU ARE POWERFUL AF.
Go create your epic life.