I'm going to say this straight up and with massive amounts of love.

You are where you are, because of the stories you tell.

Not because of the circumstances, no matter how real they are, they can only hold you back to the level that you allow them to.

Why should you listen to me?

Because I've managed to create my dreams from a place of shitty circumstances.

It has NOT been easy for me to turn my money shit around.

And for years I blamed the government, the economy, my boss, society, etc, etc.

I would tell anyone who would listen how broke I was.

I would bitch and moan and be victimized by it.

And I would get totally pissed off at anyone who would challenge me on that and tell me I was creating it.

Me, five years ago, would have stopped reading this post right here and immediately unsubscribe.

It want until I actually entertained the fact that I was creating my own reality and maybe, just MAYBE, I could take some responsibility for that and stop playing the victim role, that I was able to turn this around.

Why am I bringing this up today?

Because I've had a couple of messages in my inbox lately of people who follow me, or know me on a personal level, who really want their shit to turn around.

They want help.

They are #overit.

Over the struggle.

Yet they continue to tell the story.

Of how hard it is.

Of how broke they are.

I'll be honest with you right now.

I used to drain the fuck out of people energetically without realizing it.

And since I've been doing mindset work and have gotten really tuned into energy, I can feel other people's energies so clearly.

And hearing that stuff? Man oh man, nothing can lower your vibe quicker than a "I'm broke" conversation.

Like I said, I've been there (to an extreme degree), so I'm not saying this from a place of judgment, but moreso because I HAVE been there, I am able to tell YOU with CONFIDENCE and EXPERIENCE that that story you keep telling?

Is exactly what's keeping you stuck.

It's exactly what's blocking you from the money you think you so desperately need.

Change your story, change your life.

Sometimes I literally just ignore the messages.

For two reasons. Firstly, because me engaging with you on your story about why you can't, does NOTHING for you. But secondly, because I don't have time for that shit.

You see, people who want to keep telling you "how it is", are not actually committed to creating what they desire.

It's the cold, hard truth.

Our thoughts, our beliefs, our words...are EVERYTHING.

You can tell a lot about what a person is committed to, by the words that come out of their mouth and the language they are using.

So if you're one of those people who feels stuck and feels ready to turn this shit around, first of all, congratulations. This is the hardest step in the process.

Now, take a deep breath and make the commitment to do the inner work required to actually change your results.

Commit to telling a different story.

I do not care what your circumstances are.

Neither should you, if you truly want anything to change.

Continue to relate to your circumstances as truth, and allow them to dictate your thoughts, and you will continue to recreate the same set of circumstances, over and over.

You've got to stop.

Change your thoughts, change your life.


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